I demand that you educate me about your experience being falsely accused of rape. How did that happen? Was the accuser someone you knew well? Is it very common for someone to be falsely accused of rape? How long ago was it? How exactly does this affect your social life? Why didn’t the stigma go away after you were acquitted? I know someone who was falsely accused of rape and acquitted about seventeen years ago, and it fucked up his life at the time but it doesn’t really affect him anymore. Hey, his name is [x], do you know him?

I can’t relate to what you’re going through until I know the details. I demand that you educate me about your marginalization.