Been selfhosting my music for years (was the initial push into the hobby). Bandcamp is your friend. I also don’t mind paying more for what i like nowadays. Still, I pirate stuff im not sure i like yet, like a demo of sorts. I listen to too much experimental stuff recommended by friends to know what ill love before simmering on it. Then i either go back and buy it, or just make sure to support them in more direct ways like buying more merchandise than I normally would. Pick a band that I’ve been vibing on that month and dumptruck cash on them.

Not a perfect solution, but it works for me, and I think I’ve given more money to artists overall than my table scrap stream pennies would have.