Context: I’m 19 and completely inexperienced when it comes to dating. Two days ago, my friend, her boyfriend, and I were supposed to go see Backrooms together, but one of the boyfriend’s friends joined us last minute. This guy insisted on paying for my movie ticket, snacks, dinner afterward, and even 3 books when we stopped at a bookstore, and then he drove me home. After the movie, I mentioned that I wanted to see Obsession next because, in my mind, they’re kind of sister movies, and he said we should go see it together, which we did yesterday. He acted the exact same way then too. He’s also going fishing on Sunday, and I’m going with him. I’ve never had a guy act like this toward me before, so I honestly don’t know what to make of it. But I really love it, and I can’t stop thinking about him.

  • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    117·
    13 hours ago

    I’m a 39 year old man. I’ve seen this a lot. According to my observations, here’s what you’re required to do:

    • Take everything he buys for you for granted. Throw some of it in the trash unused in front of him.
    • Refuse to fuck him.
    • Make daily posts to social media you know he has about how you can’t find a good man.
    • Get a restraining order.
    • Have a very public relationship with someone who treats you a LOT worse. Have 45 of his children for every eye socket of yours he breaks.

    Youth is wasted on the young THE BOY IS TRYING TO LIKE YOU, LIKE HIM BACK BEFORE HATE SATAN THROATFUCKS YOUR BRAIN AND YOU BECOME LIKE ME.