Fan of breaking echo chambers by being devils advocate. Other than that, centrist. As in in USA I’d be considered left.

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  • Funfact. I absolutely hate cooking. My mind wanders out the window the very moment I take a step into the kitchen while my body becomes violently shaking akin to exorcised evil spirit. I feel violated by the very fact I need to do something in the kitchen.

    So if I cook, I make sure to do plain things. Minced meat is your friend. It can work with rice, spaghetti, as part of casserole, or as a cutlet…and prolly more. It cares not. It’s fast. It’s botherless. It’s cheap. It’ll accept you as you are.

    You enter the kitchen, lose all vibe for like 10 minutes, then leave with something that while maybe not being gourmet, is tasty enough to still make you feel like you did good.

    And you can drop anything into minced meat. Beans, veggies, mushrooms. Again, it cares not.


  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldRoad rage
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    8 days ago

    Eaaasy, buddy. No matter what did you do, next to normal consequences your driving license goes buh-buy for a year. Hit someone’s car? Fine + License buhbye for a year. Hit a lamp post? Same. Hit a kid? Jail for manslaughter or whatever it’s called…plus licence buhbuye for a year. If they also take your license, then that also qualifies.

    Speeding ticket? Guess what. Fine plus license buhbye.

    No buy backs, no slippin, fuck your status. Can’t drive? Ride public. Can’t afford to be so poor? Pay someone to drive you. If they hit something tho, you better start walkin’. xD




  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldFree time
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    20 days ago

    But my world will. I am the lynchpin, the stable backbone, that holds it together and makes it function, I’m not good at it, i suck at it, but that’s the best i can do.

    Though don’t get me wrong, it’s not that grim.

    It does sound like it. You ok, friend?


  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldFree time
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    21 days ago

    But we do owe shit to someone, to the people we live with or even if just for our future selves.

    Break the self imposed chains, mate. Kids an partner do limit it, but you absolutely can take a day of - just keep in mind to keep it consensual with your partner and be ready to return the favor in the future. Hell, I see in most advice given by parents to other parents to do exactly that to avoid going crazy.

    But all in all, I am going to be blunt. You sound like someone who is constantly on the lookout for reasons not to live your life. You are not a cog in the machine, you are not essential to the world turning, one day off won’t make the whole fall apart. Live your life. Be human.


  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldFree time
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    21 days ago

    There is no such concept in today’s society as a truly free time.

    You can absolutely have free time. You don’t owe shit to anyone 24/7. Taking a break - and that counts hygiene, cleaning etc. too - for one day is absolutely alright. Drop the phone, do whatever you want, be it watching YT for 16 hours straight, goin the fuck out to hit the pubs or frolicking in the grass.

    We, sadly, are not able to live like that day to day. But we absolutely can eke out such time for ourselves. If that’s what we want to do.

    Small note - “sadly not able to live like that day to day” does not include dropping hygiene fully. You owe it to yourself if not anyone else. :|








  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.world5.9/10
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    1 month ago

    Personal scale, fully subjective:

    1. Watch it if you are one of people who always fiddle with phone or sleep at shows
    2. Drying paint may be better
    3. Better than nothing
    4. Kinda meh
    5. Enjoyable Somewhat good
    6. Quite Good Enjoyable
    7. Good
    8. Very Good
    9. Fantastic
    10. Watch it or die trying

    * Got corrected. Now at english better am, I >:3



  • Demdaru@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldFree speech warrior
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    1 month ago

    I’m orange but with conviction - I may hate what you say, but I still believe you have the right to say it.

    But also to hear shit back if people don’t like it. Or be shamed. Basically believe there should be no legal or administrative action tied to speech itself, but how people react to your speech is nothing more than consequence of your actions.