Yeah and its all the more annoying when they acknowledge the cliff as if we’re supposed to clap for them.

E.g. “climate change is the #1 existential threat” “OK will your campaign commit to revoking fracking and mining licenses on federal land?” “WOAH don’t be CRAZY”

I won’t find y’all the MLK quote for it, y’all know it. But it is legitimately more frustrating to hear a white liberal tell me we’d be eating caviar at brunch if only Kamala had been elected than hearing a Trumper tell me he’s doing nothing wrong.

Part of it is I don’t need to build a coalition with MAGA, but this blue no matter who person is actively halting progress in the “lesser evil” party.

Maybe McKay meant that, maybe not. Dudes a rich white liberal anyways so I hope he’s self aware when he says this.

Bro has failed to consider male sex work, or sex work not aimed at people with penises.

In all seriousness this is giving big “I’m OK with gays but can they just not shove it in my face?” energy. Reevaluate how your phrase this argument.

Gonna assume you want much more control than this but something that really helped me understand what each arr component did was using an automated script to stand everything up. If you’re using something like proxmox or a VM I really liked yams.media as the steps are laid out very straight forwardly.

After about a year of running that and moving my home server to TrueNAS I now stand up all my own containers using dockge and docker compose. But IMO its easier to start easy

Honing in on the “recipes” par of your post. I’ve really enjoyed self hosting mealie for those.

Correct. Its just a mesh VPN

I think this may be a your milage may vary thing. I only personally use netbird for remote server management, as I barely consume anything other than streamed music remotely. I host netbird community edition on my server in a VM so the streaming quality isn’t dependent on any tier of service purchased from the company

I’ll recommend netbird as its entirely running on your server, is free, and I found it way easier to set up compared to Tailscale/Headscale