Malcolm, since it’s in the middle.

You articulated it perfectly. Partnership is collaborative. Our mindset is that we’re on the same team. We help each other to keep harmony so neither is overburdened. I’ll pass on that motherhood martyrdom bs, no thanks. This is a marathon, not a sprint. I value my partnership.

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Kinda rage bait. I’m a newish mom and verbalize when struggling. If he’s doesn’t know how to help, I direct him. I had to get comfortable with the fact that he would help in his own way and to not steamroll him as a parent just because I’m mom. But I ask if I need something; he’s not a mind reader or an asshole, he’s my partner.

I hope it gets better for anyone struggling like this. It’s tough.

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It took me way longer to see it than I’m proud of…

Yet here I am putting myself on blast, hah.

It helps to step back and appreciate what you have (things and people). I try to follow up by verbalizing gratitude especially to those I love. Say “thank you” often and mean it etc. Even if I’m not happy, if I show outward appreciation for someone else I get happy. Happiness is a gift.

Also I try to treat myself like I’m my best friend. I check in often and reflect on what I might want/need to maintain tranquility. Happiness is a choice and a practice.

Great post.

I can’t complain. Overall I’m pretty happy.

Hopefully everything is going well for you too.