This is basically what’s happening:

Wake up Hasan!

I’m sorry that you’re put in a tough spot. Hobbies, friends (online and offline), self-care… you might want to do anything to make this hard life period even a little more bearable. I hope everything turns out fine for you as soon as possible.

It does create a much more intimate environment.

And well, if you feel guilty for the way you reacted in the past, I’d reccomand to just keep the lesson you got from it (What do you wish you hadn’t done? How do you wish you had reacted instead?) and to not give too much importance to something that happened in the past. You gain wisdom and experience from mistake and trials and then you move on.

As Lenin said, “Learning is never done without errors and defeat.“

I would also like to point out that since you were abused, you were put in a nearly impossible situation! Who can react ‘well’ to abuse, especially when young? I think most people are unprepared to deal with it.

I’m sorry that you are put in such a difficult situation, and if the police doesn’t do anything, all you can do is find the best viable path for yourself, even if it’s hard.

There are like 100 people here on Lemmygrad who use it once or more each day, we aren’t super numerous, but give it some time and other people will comment.

Solidarity, comrade. And never feel guilty for what you feel

Let’s go!!! Congrats!!! :D

Thank you. ❤︎ I will check if an academic advisor is avaible at my faculty, and if I meet any more problems I’ll talk to them. These two were the first ones, so I think it’s way too soon to consider dropping our or switching majors. Besides, to switch major would mean losing a year, and I wouldn’t even know what to study for it to land me a job. Since my university major is just 3 years long, if I can manage, I’d rather to endure it. (With honors possibly… that dream is not yet dead!)

Thank you ❤︎, I’m sorry to hear that you’re in the same boat. It’s true what you said about education, it really does feel like that. Solidarity and good luck with you medical licence exam!

Yessir

Next time it will be different.

Thank you ‪‪❤︎‬ You are right, it is true that, as Mao said, failure is the mother of success. The best thing to do in the face of defeat is to learn from it.

Basically, once the lessons concluded and they gave us a month off, I started by going over the program from start to finish, by using the notes for each lesson; afterwards, I began doing exercises that our teachers gave us to prepare. I already understand a few mistakes I did, for example it would have been better to study theory and then do exercises about what I just studied. Furthermore, I also didn’t revise enough. Another error I did was relying exclusively on my university’s material, which wasn’t enough to give me full expertise (in my opinion).

The people who say that think that since they’re homeless it’s their fault and they will never change, which is both wrong and dehumanizing. It’s even more absurd when you consider that in the USA, the most anti-homeless country ever, around 70% of people are living paycheck to paycheck, so they are one tragedy away from becoming homeless too.