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Cake day: November 1st, 2023

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  • Your assumptions about me are off by a lot. (Except for me thinking of a small population, which made me reflect, thank you)

    I did improve my social skills by forcing myself to talk to people for half a year every Thursday. Someone telling me that “beeing social” is a skill would have helped me.

    And it’s obvious you believe it helps some people if I say “be social”. Why is an advice “not beeing helpful” to some reason enough not to say it?




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    7 days ago

    The thing with is: if you have passion for something you want to let others experience these feelings as well. And i dont need to know someone to tell them about my passion projects and they only need the tiniest of positive response for me to enjoy helping them… I hope you have something you are passionate about to understanding what i am trying to convey. The crucial part is the “i dont need to know someone well to enjoy helping them” and i know for a fact that a huuuge percentage of people share that mindset. Sooo:

    I know there is someone in your life that would love to share their passion for cooking with you!

    And btw: suggesting there is someone in your vicinity to help you with your problem leads to them masking around for help leads to the person broadening their circle which makes it evermore likely to find someone which actually wants to help.