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Cake day: September 20th, 2025

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  • My phone Bluetooth is off by default so if I’m just going for a short drive I will listen to my local station. The music selection is generally decent and I don’t mind the chatter. I’ll also switch over for traffic reports if I’m stuck. I’m sure they’re just looking at google maps but it saves me having to do it.





  • Write the speech first and practice it quite a bit. When practicing notice the emotions and maybe write breaks into your speech to allow you to feel.

    The last funeral I spoke at I put a joke in and the idea was while the audience had a little laugh I could compose myself and get ready for the emotional close.

    By rehearsing it you make it a bit easier but allow yourself to feel and grieve without restraint at some point.