• 0 Posts
  • 39 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: March 4th, 2024

help-circle





  • I have similar issues, though maybe not quite as intense as yours. I also have ADHD, and my eyes “wander” more when I am unmedicated. I think it’s kind of like being drawn to shiny things, but there’s also an element of objectification to it, which is the part that makes me uncomfortable.

    I think checking people out is OK and human, but if you’re going out of your way to walk places where there will be more people available to look at, maybe you need to reflect on what you’re really after. Are you single? Lonely?

    There are lots of interesting things to focus on that are not women’s bodies existing out in public. If you’re finding it hard to focus on anything but butts, might be worth talking to a therapist about. Idk, just my $0.02.













  • glibg@lemmy.catoBicycles@lemmy.caMy Daily Driver
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    2 months ago

    Great bike, beautiful colour. I will always have a soft spot for the downtube shifters as my first “adult” bike had them and it’s how I learned to shift. Sadly my current bike has modern brifters which work excellent but… not quite the same