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Cake day: May 20th, 2025

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  • I was in a confidence-quenching toxic relationship for 9 years, and I still deem it suspicious whenever things in my life have been going well for more than 3 days in a row, and I feel literal anxiety whenever I’m having a good time with friends and family, as if I don’t deserve it.








  • They cannot limp along indefinitely, but they can do so for decades. That’s exactly the problem. It’s a common ‘turkey problem’. In my experience, whether the company can get out of the swamp depends mainly on two things: whether bosses/decision makers understand anything at all about technology, and whether they are willing (and, hierarchically speaking, able) to have their skin in the game for big, important changes.