I hate that people focus on the tech itself. It only creates a problem because we are living in a system that screws everyone over except a few. Let’s get mad at that.

Your last paragraph is explanation enough I agree. But tbh the phone tower thing sounds like an edge case. Yes, if your wife is watching the live feed of the cameras and is sitting on a highspeed train it will happen but that doesn’t sound like a very likely scenario to me. Although I probably underestimate the times you are actually moving while checking the cameras. Cuz idle time on transportation is a good time to do that. Anyways thanks for keeping the lights in the Casa turned on.

I know it has been said already but how stupid is it to teach users the pattern of randomly scanning QR codes. So ironic given that reCaptcha is for security in some sense.

Cant you just install a VPN profile on your wife’s phone? Like companies do

I guess we could still fork the current Bitwarden client?

Selfhosting on a VPS can have its use cases (piracy). If you are worried about exposing it to the internet just don’t and ise company profiles on your devices to automatically connect your network using VPN

Oh it’s actually more like 20€/y i just realized, $19,80 to be exact. Bitwarden. But there was a post the other day that enshittification is going to start soon so idk what I will get then. If there is no good alternative I will probably start selfhosting that too

Password manager for 10€/y and webspace which is free cuz I host some websites for money

In the 80s, 90s they had a huge addiction problem in SEA and Thailand, being part of the golden triangle. They are understandably kinda anti-drugs since then.

But why does NPM enable post install scripts by default? Why is there no way to define a minimum release age for dependency versions? It’s just poor design choices.

you need to figure out what VLANs you need and how the communication (firewall rules) between them should work or not work. Which devices are connecting to your services/proxmox host from which VLANs? To actually answer your question, if you want to figure it out try it in a tested lab setting or do this when you have time. I spent quite some time troubleshooting why certain firewall rules don’t work as expected,

I don’t know if they still do it but they actively gaslight you into believing you have e2e even with peers you have not scanned the public key of.