A lot of people kiss their pets or non-human animals in general. I find that very weird. I understand that it is a sign of affection but it seems so off. One reason is that I doubt whether animals really understand this. Also it seems to be on a level of intimacy to me that I find weird sharing with a pet. Not necessarily romantically or sexually (that would be even more weird and wrong and probably illegal). But it is still “more”. I am not sure whether I can really explain why exactly I find that weird.
Anyway, what is something that is weird to you but not to most other people?
But I’m not controlled by my biology.
I can be hungry and choose not to eat. I understand the need for reproduction on a species level, but from my point of view having children looks like peer pressure and Stockholm syndrome. There is no upside for the individual.
Can you choose not to breathe or drink? I’m all for people electing not to have kids, but eating is a biological necessity for life. Your analogy isn’t the best, mate. You’re arguably not controlled by your biology when it comes to reproduction, but what about sex drive? Does that have no impact on your habits or lifestyle? Again, it’s possible, but not the norm.
Contraceptives exists. A desire for sex is not a desire to reproduce.
Like I don’t understand what wanting kids even implies. What specifically do people yearn for that can’t be attained in other ways?
I think many people had happy childhoods, enjoyed family life, and want the same when they’re older. Most humans are tribal and often want to be part of a family and, indeed, to add to it.
Personally, I was indifferent to having children throughout my 20s and well into my 30s. My wife was keen, and I wasn’t averse to the idea.
As it happens, it was, by an order of magnitude, the best decision I made in my entire life. It completely altered my perception of self, the world, and everything.
Still sounds like Stockholm syndrome.
You should probably talk to someone, mate.
You haven’t given me a single reason. Just platitudes and the fact that you went along with your so wishes without wanting it yourself.