• GaMEChld@lemmy.world
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      25 days ago

      You’re the same person who commented headphones in means don’t approach. That’s not what I’m talking about. Go to YouTube, search “men not approaching women” and behold, many women reporting that they aren’t getting approached when they feel they should be. So the feedback I’m hearing is, well, women should go and approach men, which men seemed fine with the idea, but women seemed appalled at the notion. If you want me to link some compilations I will.

      I mean I don’t care either way, I already found my partner, so you all do you.

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                17 days ago

                Go to YouTube, search “men not approaching women” and behold

                This is what holds up your whole argument and it’s pretty silly, my purpose is to point that out.

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                  16 days ago

                  I’m telling you I don’t even know what YOU’RE arguing. Ok you disagree with me. So what do YOU think?

                  All you’ve said was “Yes, as it should be.” As if things are just peachy with the status quo in the current dating paradigms. Is that your point? That everything is fine the way it is?

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                    16 days ago

                    Not necessarily the way it is but yes, respectful men shouldn’t approach women in random places. Same as respectful men not trying to sell stuff in random places. Isn’t it bothersome when someone approaches you in a library or gym trying to sell you something? It’s the same for getting asked out on dates in random places.

                    So yes, as it should be, respectful people shouldn’t be hitting on people in random places.