If I remember correctly Sexologist Dr. Lindsey Doe has a story from her time as a student where she was in a lecture where a dude was talking about there being no evidence of a G-Spot, and joking about squirting as a concept being a made up porn gag, and she’s sitting in the auditorium being like “but I experience G-Spot orgasms and squirt, like… often” 😅
Now, to be fair to the field at least a little bit, I understand why maybe she didn’t want to stand up and shout “I routinely hammer my G-Spot and squirt all over the place” in front of her peers, and even in a clinical environment I could imagine it’s not the most orgasm-conducive setting to have a bunch of electrodes and cameras and stuff setup and then to be like “okay, now please show us all what it’s like at home. Anytime. We’re all ready to watch”
Before I met her, my wife went to an anatomy course in which the teacher apparently said women couldn’t have kinks (though I believe the word used was “philia”).
I wonder how many of these teachers telling others that women don’t like sex were just in denial about their own dead bedroom at home. “Oh honey, nono, it’s not you, it’s that women just aren’t interested in sex in general! Now go off and earn your paycheck, I need to give some special instructions to the pool boy. You know how particular I am about the state of our pool!”
If I remember correctly Sexologist Dr. Lindsey Doe has a story from her time as a student where she was in a lecture where a dude was talking about there being no evidence of a G-Spot, and joking about squirting as a concept being a made up porn gag, and she’s sitting in the auditorium being like “but I experience G-Spot orgasms and squirt, like… often” 😅
Now, to be fair to the field at least a little bit, I understand why maybe she didn’t want to stand up and shout “I routinely hammer my G-Spot and squirt all over the place” in front of her peers, and even in a clinical environment I could imagine it’s not the most orgasm-conducive setting to have a bunch of electrodes and cameras and stuff setup and then to be like “okay, now please show us all what it’s like at home. Anytime. We’re all ready to watch”
What a braggart.
Before I met her, my wife went to an anatomy course in which the teacher apparently said women couldn’t have kinks (though I believe the word used was “philia”).
That tracks deeply with my understanding of the history of kinky women’s community and culture.
I wonder how many of these teachers telling others that women don’t like sex were just in denial about their own dead bedroom at home. “Oh honey, nono, it’s not you, it’s that women just aren’t interested in sex in general! Now go off and earn your paycheck, I need to give some special instructions to the pool boy. You know how particular I am about the state of our pool!”
This roughly matches my wife’s theories.
Oh clearly! It’s just simple science! Philia are stored in the balls. 😉
Sounds about right. Like confidently claiming that women getting wet isn’t a real thing …
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