Doubledee [comrade/them]

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  • Assuming you decide to meet with them, here’s some things that occurred to me.

    1. Have you been documenting the things they’ve said to you? Are they communicating in digital/written formats? Having those receipts will be useful if you decide to try to take this show more public, or to threaten it.

    2. You are in a tough spot, they have the power to keep you off the premises and the legal right to do so, as I understand it. However you have something they want, and that they can only get from you. They want this to blow over, you can figure out what that means to them and bargain with them about it. It almost certainly doesn’t mean headlines where a promising high school senior isn’t allowed to attend graduation because of their political views. Take their offer to ‘resolve the conflict’ seriously, I strongly suspect they want this to go away in the least obstructive way they can get it.

    These people also weren’t born yesterday, there’s a reason they’re doing the same thing to you that they did to your friend- getting you alone makes it easier to get someone in a key position to flip on important demands. Meeting with them is an opportunity for both sides to try to get what they want in a less confrontational way, and the admin folks have experience talking young people into the correct position. If you agree to meet you will want to have a game plan with your parents and clear red lines you are not willing to cross, guiding principles to keep you from getting derailed in talks. But think hard about what those lines are, because if you get totally boxed out of campus and away from the people you’re helping organize that’s not really a win for you. Some things might need to be compromised on for the sake of bigger goals.

    1. Assuming these people are mostly liberals, they see themselves as valuing speech and civic participation. They believe they want to train the next generation to be conscientious involved citizens. Exploit that belief. You want to express yourself. You have strong political beliefs. There is almost certainly some version of group expression they would accept, if/when you meet ask them what they think is an appropriate way for students to advocate for their political views. Show you’re interested in getting your views out there and that you are willing to assess the merits of different ways of doing that.

    If their proposal is not acceptable to you, allude diplomatically to points 1 and 2: You can make this a bigger problem for them, or you can make this go away less painfully for them. Are there alternatives you would accept as a win? Advocate for those, try to propose actions that keep the people you’ve organized on side but will be more tolerable to the admin if they won’t budge.

    1. As difficult as they are being, you will get further if you seem like you’re operating in good faith and being reasonable. Insist on things that you can pitch to liberals, appeal to values you know they believe themselves to hold. They have cards here, they have the more or less unlimited capability to keep you off premises. You have cards too, play well and I think you can negotiate something, which will demonstrate you’re serious to the admin and also make them less afraid of you and what you might do because you’re behaving in a way they understand.

    Good luck, comrade. I join everyone else here in admiring your work and commitment.

    rat-salute


  • Hey, so there are two things that stick out to me.

    First, you are not a failure and you should be proud that you have acted according to convictions you feel so strongly. You are familiar with conditions on the ground so take my perspective with caution because you are in a better position than I am. That said I would encourage you to try to get in the head of the school admin. They are (most likely) not ideologically Zionist, they are probably trying to keep the lid on a situation that brings them a lot of attention and gives them extra work. Most people in the imperial core are not actively thinking about these things because they are not conscious of them like you are. There will still be tension of course, but they do not want to crush you or hurt you (again, most likely, you are there and I am not) they just want things to blow over quietly.

    And second, I would encourage you to think strategically about this. You are heavily invested in this project, and that might be affecting how you are analyzing the situation. You have in fact accomplished something impressive: You have a bunch of your classmates paying attention to news and listening to a perspective that is driving them to action as well! You are, in fact, already organizing them. So there is a tactical decision here, as I see it. You can, and perhaps should, continue confronting the administration with these moves that they are working to stifle. But that’s not the only thing you can do. You can continue educating your peers, you can lead a book club or discussion session or platform other perspectives to help them grow.

    Put another way, don’t let the administration set the terms of what you are able to get your peers to do. If their resistance to one approach becomes overbearing you have the ability to pivot to something else without losing your cadre. You have a ton of options, so don’t feel like if this particular step is not worth the heat, then you have been defeated. Adapting is good praxis

    Finally, I’m sure this is an annoying thing to hear from a stranger, but take care of yourself. I’m sure you’re more than aware but this whole thing is to clearly affecting your mental health and your home life. Those are big costs to pay, make sure the things that are causing those pains are worth it. You’re ahead of the curve and you clearly have talent in organizing. Don’t burn yourself out in school, we need people like you for things that are ahead of us.