• Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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    4 hours ago

    Maybe a hundred by now, lost count. My wife has hundreds more than me, and we keep increasing our numbers together, so to speak. God I love my wife and I love my life.

    Wife an I love to regularly go to sex clubs, we have regular partners we play with a lot, and we both give eachother the freedom that if we have an opportunity to have sex while the other isn’t there, take it. We both simply love sex and we’re super open and honest and respectful about our wants, needs, and desires

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    I realized the other day that I don’t have a solid count. A friend of mine revealed they have a document with a line item for everyone they’ve slept with and a brief summary.

    I’d guess it could reasonably round to 100, though.

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      I don’t mind anyone sleeping with a hundred people, or more even. Don’t mind the diary either, just that to me that sounds like too much work that nobody would ever read, but to each their own

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    1. But it feels really weird that someone I slept with hundreds of times, often in sessions of 40 minutes to two hours would count the same towards that number as someone who I slept with once for 15 minutes.

    Of the 12, 4 were a single time, 1 was a few times and the rest were over a year of sleeping together, usually 2 or 3.

    For what it’s worth the sex was only physically pleasurable in the long term deals for me.

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        I like to think not, I just wouldn’t want to treat previous partners as a notch on the bed post.

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      Oh come on

      What is degrading about simply stating facts? I’ve had one partner or two or ten, or a hundred or more… What is the degrading part here?

      I’ve had sex with hundreds of partners and all of them enjoyed it by my knowing, what is degrading about it? One, two, or a bunch of people having fun together is degrading for you?

      My wife has had hundreds of partners too, probably more than I. She is amazing and I respect her to no end. Am I degrading her by saying this? Is it degrading that she likes sex?

      Live and let live, buddy. Don’t judge people, and don’t make such a huge deal about sex, it’s not a religion

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        Idk just feels like a degrading thing to do, I used to brag as a younger man but I don’t feel it is appropriate now and looking back don’t feel it was appropriate then.

        You do you, feel however you feel about it, personally, I find it as degrading.

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    So far, I have only had one sexual partner. Thank you for asking, SatansMaggotyCumFart.

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    Lost count but I’m confident it’s somewhere between zero and 23423431.

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    More than 20. I disagree that it makes it less meaningful. But I have learned that there are many women who are bad at sex. It’s not just men.

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    Nearing a thousand probably, I spent a few years as a sex worker at a busy brothel.

    Disregarding sex work, idk like 60 or so, maybe more. Casual sex with friends was pretty normal with the various groups of people I used to hangout with.