• x00z@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    My left/right nod depends on the physical layout of the land. I either nod towards a girl or a place to talk.

  • fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 days ago

    a really funny trait i had pre-transition was doing man nods (presenting female)

    i don’t think i really processed it as a male thing till i had transitioned

    looking back, i wonder if people thought i was weird for that

  • fibojoly@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    I’m curious to know what people disagree with.
    Personally I’m not sure about the left / right thing, but otherwise there really is something beautiful about context dependent nodding.

    The one video about guys nodding to each other to get an order of beers is such a textbook example…

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      4 days ago

      Nodding up is the same motion you’d make to say “hey” to a friend

      Nodding down is a small bow of respect that exists in like every culture ever

      The left/right thing makes no sense and is in no way universal. What if the girl is to your right?