Developer for 30+ years, father of four.

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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • That’s a lot of questions.

    I’ll give you some more context. I only came to this decision after driving with him for 10 hours up to Portland, where he worked for 6 months, and then driving him back down for another 10 hours. All the hours of which we talked quite deliberately about our differences of opinion. This wasn’t a spur of the moment thing.

    My son is a lot like me, and all my other children. We are opinionated but rational. Indeed, I am planning to reconnect, and I hope he feels the same way. But that’s not up to me. It depends on how it goes.

    In the end, he is my son, I have made choices, and I indeed regret quite a few of the ones I’ve made. I hope to rectify this one, this one that has severed my connection with my child. I talk with my other three children regularly.

    You might think about how much you are thinking about other people’s comments on the internet though.